Baibuli neegira ngu n’ekigyendererwa kya Ruhanga n’abantu ‘kwezibira, n’okwerinda obushambani.’ (1 Abatesalonika 4:3) Ekigambo “obushambani” nk’oku kirikukoresibwa omu Baibuli nikitwariramu kuteerana aheeru y’obushwere, ebikorwa by’obutingwa, n’okuteerana kw’omushaija n’omukazi batagaitsirwe.

•  Ahabw’enki Ruhanga naafayo yaaba omushaija n’omukazi bagaitwa nari banga?

•  Kandi shi okutuura hamwe batagaitsirwe kugyezesa kureeba yaaba nibabaasikana?

•  Abashweraine nibabaasa kuhamya bata obushwere bwabo?

•   Ruhanga niwe yaatandikireho obushwere. Ekyo akakikora obu yaagaita omushaija n’omukazi ab’okubanza. (Okutanidka 2:22-24) Akaba atarikwenda ngu omushaija n’omukazi batuure hamwe batagaitsirwe.

•   Ruhanga naamanya eky’oburungi bw’abantu. Akatandikaho obushwere kuba entebeekanisa y’obutwire ey’omushaija n’omukazi ey’okugasira ab’eka boona n’okubarinda. Teekateeka aha ky’okureeberaho eki ekyorobi. Nk’oku omuntu arikukuha engyenderwaho erikworeka oku oine kukwatanisa gye ekibaizirwe, nikwo na Ruhanga arikutuha obuhabuzi oburikutuhwera kuba abasinguzi omu maka gaitu. Butoosha emitindo ya Yehova neegasira abarikugigyenderaho.—Isaaya 48:17, 18.

•   Okuteerana aheeru y’obushwere nikubaasa kurugamu akabi kaingi. Nk’eky’okureeberaho, noobaasa kutwara enda ei otarikwenda, endwara z’obushambani, n’okugira amaganya maingi. a

•   Ruhanga akaha abashaija n’abakazi okubaasa kw’okuzaara kurabira omu kuteerana. Ruhanga naatwara amagara nk’agarikwera, kandi okuzaara n’ekiconco ky’omuhendo. N’ahabw’ekyo Ruhanga naayenda ngu ekiconco kyo tukikwate gye, turikuha entebeekanisa y’obushwere ekitiinisa.—Abaheburaayo 13:4.

 Tikirikwetengyesa omushaija n’omukazi kubanza kugyezesa kureeba yaaba nibabaasa kutuura hamwe. Kureka, omukago niguhama omushaija n’omukazi we baahamiranaho kandi bakakorera hamwe kushoboorora oburemeezi. b Obushwere nibuhamya okuhamiranaho.—Matayo 19:6.

 Tihariho bushwere buhikiriire. Kwonka, omushaija n’omukazi we, nibabaasa kuba abasinguzi omu bushwere barikugyendera aha buhabuzi bwa Baibuli. Ebi n’eby’okureeberaho bimwe:

•   Yebeembeze eby’omukundwa waawe kukira ebyawe.—1 Abakorinso 7:3-5; Abafilipi 2:3, 4.

•   Mugirirane rukundo kandi muhaane ekitiinisa.—Abaefeso 5:25, 33.

•   Yega kurinda emigambire yaawe.—Enfumu 12:18.

•   Ba omugumisiriza kandi rahuka kusaasira.—Abakolosai 3:13, 14.