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sandhōshamaana kudumbam—pagudhi 1
pudhumana thambadhigal kaalamellaam sandhōshamaaga vaala aasaippadugiraargal. adhu niraivērumaa? kandippaaga! baibil solgirapadi nadakka muyarchi edutthirukkum thambadhigal romba varushatthukku piragumkūda sandhōshamaaga vaalgiraargal.
1. kanavargalukku baibil enna arivurai tharugiradhu?
kanavaraitthaan kudumbatthin thalaivaraaga yegōvaa niyamitthirukkiraar. (ebēsiyar 5:23-ai vaasiyungal.) kudumbatthukku prayōjanamaana mudivugalai kanavar edukka vēndumendru avar edhirpaarkkiraar. adhōdu, “ungal manaivimīdhu thodarndhu anbu kaattungal” endru solgiraar. (ebēsiyar 5:25) appadiyendraal, oru nalla kanavar vīttilum veliyilum manaiviyai anbaaga nadatthuvaar, avalai batthiramaaga paartthukkolvaar, avalukku thēvaiyaanadhaiyellaam seivaar, avaludaiya unarchigalai purindhu nadandhukolvaar. (1 thīmōtthēyu 5:8) mukkiyamaaga, yegōvaavōdu oru nalla bandhatthai vaitthukkolla udhavuvaar. (matthēyu 4:4) udhaaranatthukku, manaiviyōdu sērndhu jebam seivaar, baibilaiyum padippaar. ippadiyellaam seiyumpōdhu, yegōvaavōdu avarukku irukkum natpu nilaitthirukkum.—1 pēdhuru 3:7-ai vaasiyungal.
2. manaivigalukku baibil enna arivurai tharugiradhu?
“manaivi than kanavanukku aalndha mariyaadhai kaatta vēndum.” (ebēsiyar 5:33) adhai aval eppadi seiyalaam? kanavanukku irukkum nalla gunangalai patriyum, kudumbatthai gavanitthukkolla avar edukkum muyarchigalai patriyum ninaitthu paarkkalaam. avar edukkum mudivugalukku aadharavu kodukkalaam, avaridam anbaaga pēsalaam, matravargalidam avarai patri nalla vidhamaaga pēsalaam. avar yegōvaavai vanangaadhavaraaga irundhaalum ippadiyellaam seivadhan mūlam avarukku mariyaadhai kaattalaam.
3. thambadhigal thangal bandhatthai eppadi balappadutthalaam?
“avargal irandu pērum orē udalaaga iruppaargal” endru baibil solgiradhu. (matthēyu 19:5) appadiyendraal, thangalukku idaiyil irukkum nerukkam kuraivadharku avargal idamkodukka kūdaadhu. adharku avargal ondraaga sērndhu nēram selavida vēndum. manadhil iruppadhaiyellaam velippadaiyaagavum anbaagavum pēsa vēndum. yegōvaavukku adutthapadiyaaga thunaiyaitthaan mukkiyamaaga ninaikka vēndum, vēru yaaraiyum alladhu edhaiyumvida! adhōdu, thunaiyai thavira vēru yaarudanum thavaraana vidhatthil nerungi palagavē kūdaadhu.
aaraaindhu paarkkalaam!
ungal thirumana bandhatthai balappaduttha udhavum baibil arivuraigalai patri paarkkalaam.
4. kanavargalē—manaivimēl anbum akkaraiyum kaattungal
“kanavargalum thangal sondha udalmīdhu anbu kaattuvadhupōl thangal manaivimīdhum anbu kaatta vēndum” endru baibil solgiradhu. (ebēsiyar 5:28, 29) idhan arttham enna? vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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kanavargal ennenna valigalil thangal manaivimēl anbum akkaraiyum kaattalaam?
kolōseyar 3:12-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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kanavargal eppadi indha gunangalai thangal manaiviyidam kaattalaam?
5. manaivigalē—kanavaridam anbum mariyaadhaiyum kaattungal
kanavar yegōvaavai vananginaalum sari, vanangaavittaalum sari, manaivi avarukku mariyaadhai kaatta vēndumendru baibil solgiradhu. 1 pēdhuru 3:1, 2-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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ungal kanavar yegōvaavai vanangaadhavar endraal, avarum yegōvaavai ētrukkolla vēndumendru nīngal kandippaaga aasaippaduvīrgal. adharku baibilai patri pēsikkondē iruppadhu udhavumaa alladhu avaridam anbaagavum mariyaadhaiyaagavum nadandhukolvadhu udhavumaa? ēn?
kanavanum manaiviyum sērndhu nalla mudivugalai edukka mudiyum. aanaal silasamayangalil, kanavar edukkum mudivai manaiviyaal ētrukkolla mudiyaamal pōgalaam. adhai avaridam saanthamaagavum mariyaadhaiyaagavum sollalaam. aanaal, kudumbatthukku edhu nalladhu endru mudivu edukkum poruppai kanavarukkutthaan yegōvaa kodutthirukkiraar enbadhai manaivi purindhukolla vēndum. avar edukkum mudivukku mulu aadharavu kodukka vēndum. appōdhu, mulu kudumbamum sandhōshamaaga iruppadharku udhava mudiyum. 1 pēdhuru 3:3-5-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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manaivi than kanavarukku mariyaadhai kaattumpōdhu yegōvaa eppadi unaruvaar?
6. ungalaal prachinaigalai samaalikka mudiyum
prachinaigal illaadha thirumana vaalkkaiyē kidaiyaadhu. aanaal, kanavanum manaiviyum sērndhu andha prachinaigalai samaalikka vēndum. vīdiyōvai paartthuvittu, kīlē irukkum kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal.
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vīdiyōvil vandha kanavanum manaiviyum eppadi konjam konjamaaga vilagippōi kondirundhaargal?
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avargalukkul irundha virisalai sariseiya ennenna seidhaargal?
1 korindhiyar 10:24-aiyum kolōseyar 3:13-aiyum padiyungal. ovvoru vasanatthaiyum padittha piragu, indha kēlviyai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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indha arivuraigal eppadi thirumana bandhatthai balappadutthum?
naam oruvarukku oruvar madhippu kodukka vēndumendru baibil solgiradhu. appadiyendraal, oruvarai oruvar anbōdum mariyaadhaiyōdum nadattha vēndum. rōmar 12:10-ai paditthuvittu, indha kēlvigalai patri kalandhupēsungal:
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‘en kanavar/manaivi mudhalla enakku madhippu kaattattum, appuram naan kaatturēn’ endru naam ninaikkalaamaa? ēn?
silar ippadi solgiraargal: “naanga rendu pērum munna maadhiri ippō anyōnyamaa illa.”
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baibil avargalukku udhavi seiyum enbadhai nīngal eppadi edutthu solvīrgal?
surukkam
thambadhigal oruvarmēl oruvar anbum mariyaadhaiyum kaattumpōdhum, baibil arivuraigalpadi nadakkumpōdhum sandhōshamaaga irukka mudiyum.
nyaabagam varugiradhaa?
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kalyaana vaalkkai sandhōshamaaga iruppadharku kanavar enna seiya vēndum?
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kalyaana vaalkkai sandhōshamaaga iruppadharku manaivi enna seiya vēndum?
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nīngal kalyaanamaanavaraaga irundhaal, endha baibil arivurai ungal thirumana bandhatthai balappadutthum endru ninaikkirīrgal?
alasi paarungal
ungal kudumbam sandhōshamaaga iruppadharku nīngal ennenna seiyalaam endru therindhukollungal.
baibil arivuraigalpadi nadakkumpōdhu kalyaana vaalkkai eppadi sandhōshamaaga irukkum enbadhai indha isai vīdiyōvil paarungal.
kanavardhaan kudumbatthin thalaivar enbadhai manaivi eppadi madhitthu nadakkalaam endru therindhukollungal.
“pengalē, thalaimai sthaanatthirku ēn kattuppattu nadakka vēndum?” (kaavarkōburam, mē 15, 2010)
baibil arivuraigal thambadhigalukku endhalavu udhavi seiyum endru paarungal.
