Proverbs 17:1-28

  • Do not repay bad for good (13)

  • Leave before the quarrel starts (14)

  • A true friend loves at all times (17)

  • “A joyful heart is good medicine” (22)

  • A discerning man restrains his words (27)

17  Better is a piece of dry bread where there is peace*+Than a house full of feasting* along with quarreling.+  2  A servant with insight will rule over a son who acts shamefully;He will share in the inheritance as one of the brothers.  3  The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold,+But Jehovah is the examiner of hearts.+  4  A wicked man pays attention to hurtful speech,And a deceptive man listens to a malicious tongue.+  5  Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker,+And whoever rejoices over another’s disaster will not go unpunished.+  6  Grandsons* are a crown to the aged,And fathers* are the glory of their sons.*  7  Upright* speech does not befit a fool.+ How much less does false speech befit a ruler!*+  8  A gift is like a precious stone* to its owner;+Everywhere he turns, it brings him success.+  9  Whoever forgives* a transgression seeks love,+But the one who keeps harping on a matter separates close friends.+ 10  A rebuke makes a deeper impression on one having understanding+Than striking a stupid person a hundred times.+ 11  A bad man seeks only rebellion,But a cruel messenger will be sent to punish him.+ 12  Better to meet a bear bereaved of her cubsThan to encounter someone stupid in his foolishness.+ 13  If anyone repays bad for good,Bad will not depart from his house.+ 14  Beginning a fight is like opening a floodgate;*Before the quarrel breaks out, take your leave.+ 15  Anyone who acquits the wicked one and anyone who condemns the righteous one+—Both of them are detestable to Jehovah. 16  What good is it that the stupid one has the means to acquire wisdomWhen he has no heart for acquiring it?*+ 17  A true friend shows love at all times+And is a brother who is born for times of distress.+ 18  A man lacking good sense* shakes hands and agreesTo put up security* in the presence of his neighbor.+ 19  The one who loves conflict loves transgression.+ Anyone who makes his entryway high invites a crash.+ 20  The one who is crooked at heart will not find success,*+And the one who speaks deceitfully will fall into ruin. 21  The one who fathers a stupid child will experience grief;And the father of a senseless child has no joy.+ 22  A joyful heart is good medicine,*+But a crushed spirit saps one’s strength.*+ 23  A wicked man will take a bribe in secret*To pervert the course of justice.+ 24  Wisdom is directly in front of the discerning person,But the eyes of the stupid wander to the ends of the earth.+ 25  A stupid son brings grief to his fatherAnd heartache* to the one who gave birth to him.+ 26  To punish* the righteous one is not good,And to flog honorable people goes against what is right. 27  A man of knowledge restrains his words,+And a discerning man will remain calm.*+ 28  Even a fool who keeps silent will be considered wise,And the one who seals his lips, discerning.

Footnotes

^ Lit., “sacrifices.”
^ Or “quietness.”
^ Or “Grandchildren.”
^ Or “parents.”
^ Or “children.”
^ Or “noble.”
^ Or “Fine.”
^ Or “is a stone that brings favor.”
^ Lit., “covers over.”
^ Or “like opening a dam.” Lit., “letting out waters.”
^ Or “When he is lacking good sense?”
^ Lit., “in want of heart.”
^ Or “go surety.”
^ Lit., “good.”
^ Or “good for healing.”
^ Or “dries up the bones.”
^ Lit., “a bribe from the bosom.”
^ Lit., “bitterness.”
^ Or “impose a fine on.”
^ Lit., “cool of spirit.”