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Ol Witnes Bilong Jehova

Tok Pisin

Kirap!  |  Disemba 2015

 FRAN PES STORI | KAMAPIM PASIN WANBEL LONG FAMILI

Rot Bilong Daunim Kros Pait Insait Long Famili

Rot Bilong Daunim Kros Pait Insait Long Famili

OLSEM WANEM? Oltaim famili bilong yu i save kros pait? Na planti taim yupela i belhat tru na singaut bikmaus long narapela narapela. Na tu, ating yu no save wai na yupela i mekim olsem. Maski i olsem, yupela i laikim tru narapela narapela na yu no laik mekim poroman marit i bel hevi.

Em i bikpela samting long tingim olsem maski yupela i gat narapela narapela tingting, dispela i no makim olsem i stap bilong famili bilong yupela i wok long bagarap. Maski yupela i no wanbel long wanpela samting, pasin bilong yupela long stretim ol tok pait bai helpim famili long i stap wanbel o em inap kamapim hevi. Yumi ken stori long sampela rot yu inap bihainim bilong daunim kros pait insait long famili.

1. NO KEN BEKIM MAUS.

Taim tupela man i tok pait, kros inap kamap. Tasol sapos wanpela i putim yau na em i no bekim maus, orait dispela bai daunim tok pait bilong tupela. Olsem na yu mas bosim bel taim wanpela i sikirapim bel bilong yu, na yu no ken bekim maus. Taim yu mekim olsem, yu lukautim gutnem bilong yu na yu soim olsem yu rispektim yu yet. Tingim, i gutpela moa long kamapim pasin wanbel, na i no bikpela samting long winim tok pait.

“Sapos ol i no putim paiawut long paia, bai paia i dai. Na sapos ol man i no tok baksait, bai olgeta tok kros i pinis.”Sindaun 26:20.

2. PILIM TINGTING BILONG OL WANFAMILI.

Sapos yu save putim gut yau na pilim tingting bilong narapela na yu no skelim em hariap, dispela bai daunim tok pait na bai yupela i kamap wanbel gen. No ken hariap long sutim tok olsem em i gat rong, i gutpela yu pilim tingting bilong em. Tingim olsem em i popaia na mekim tok, na i no olsem em i birua long yu. Planti taim ating ol man i no tingting gut o ol i bel hevi long wanpela samting na ol i mekim tok bilong bagarapim bel bilong narapela. Na i no olsem ol i man nogut o ol i laik mekim nogut long yu, nogat.

“Yupela i mas kisim bikpela pasin sori, pasin helpim, pasin daun, pasin isi, na pasin bilong i no les kwik.”Kolosi 3:12.

3. LUSIM SAMPELA HAPTAIM BILONG DAUNIM BELHAT.

Sapos yu belhat, orait i gutpela long lusim hap yu stap long en na wokabaut liklik bilong daunim belhat. Ating yu ken go long narapela rum o go long narapela hap inap long bel bilong yu i stap isi. Dispela i no makim olsem yu no laik stretim tok, o yu pasim maus tasol na yu no laik toktok wantaim em, nogat. Taim yu lusim man yu tok pait wantaim, dispela em gutpela taim long beten long God i helpim yu long kisim pasin bilong i no les kwik, givim gutpela savetingting, na helpim yu long kliagut long risen yutupela i tok pait.

“Mobeta em i lusim dispela pasin na i no gat bikpela kros i ken kamap.”Sindaun 17:14.

 4. TINGIM GUT TOK YU BAI MEKIM NA HAU YU BAI BEKIM.

Yu no inap daunim tok pait sapos yu tingting long mekim tok bilong bagarapim bel bilong narapela. I gutpela yu mekim tok bilong mekim gut bel bilong wanfamili. No ken fosim em long bihainim tingting bilong yu, nogat. Mobeta yu daunim yu yet na askim em long kamapim klia tingting bilong en. Na tu, tok tenkyu long em i mekim olsem.

“Sapos man i no tingting gut na i tok, orait tok bilong en inap bagarapim bel bilong narapela man olsem bainat i sutim em. Tasol tok bilong man i gat gutpela tingting i save helpim ol man olsem gutpela marasin.”Sindaun 12:18.

5. DAUNIM NEK BILONG YU NA STRETIM TOK PAIT.

Sapos wanpela insait long famili i gat pasin bilong les kwik, dispela inap mekim narapela i belhat. Daunim pasin bilong tok bilas, o mekim ol tok i bagarapim bel bilong narapela, na no ken singaut bikmaus. Abrusim pasin bilong mekim ol kain tok olsem, “Yu no save tingim mi” o “Yu no save putim yau long tok bilong mi.” Long gutpela pasin, tokim poroman marit long olsem wanem pasin bilong em i mekim yu bel hevi. Yu ken tok, “Mi bel hevi taim yu . . . ” No ken ting olsem yu gat rait long subim, paitim, o kikim narapela long taim yupela i kros. Na tu, no ken kolim ol nem i daunim narapela, na mekim ol tok bilong bagarapim na pretim narapela.

“Yupela i mas rausim olgeta pasin bilong bel nogut na kros na belhat na bikmaus na tok nogut, na olgeta kain pasin nogut.”Efesus 4:31.

6. TOK SORI HARIAP, NA TOKTOK LONG HAU YU BAI STRETIM HEVI.

No ken larim ol tingting kranki i mekim na yu no laik kamapim pasin wanbel. Tingim, sapos yutupela wantaim i tok pait, orait yupela i no inap stretim hevi. Tasol sapos yutupela i kamap wanbel wantaim, orait nau yutupela i no larim hevi i daunim yupela. Olsem na mekim ol samting bilong daunim tok pait. Maski yu ting yu no gat asua, i gutpela yu tok sori olsem yu bin kros, mekim ol tok i bagarapim bel bilong em, o mekim ol samting em yu no ting bai mekim em i bel hevi. Em i bikpela samting long stap wanbel, dispela i winim pasin antap na pasin bilong winim tok pait. Na sapos wanpela i tok sori, hariap long fogivim em.

“Wok strong long mekim ol samting i save kamapim bel isi na ol samting i save strongim ol arapela.”Rom 14:19.

Taim tok pait i pinis, yu inap mekim wanem bilong strongim pasin wanbel insait long famili? Neks atikol bai bekim dispela askim.