seks thollai endraal enna?

 thappaaga thoduvadhu, nammai patriyō nammudaiya udalai patriyō thēvaiyillaadha kament adippadhu seks thollai. kaaranamē illaamal nammai thoduvadhum seks thollaidhaan. kindal pannuvadharkum valivadharkum seks thollaikkum irukkum vitthiyaasatthai kandupidippadhu silasamayangalil kashtamaagividalaam.

 ungalaal indha vitthiyaasatthai kandupidikka mudigiradhaa?  adhu seks thollai thaanaa? kandupidiyungal endra pettiyai paarungal.

 seks thollaigal palligalōdu nindruviduvadhu kidaiyaadhu. adhu thodarndhukondē irukkalaam. aanaal, nīngal eppadi adhai dhairiyamaaga samaalikkalaam, adhilirundhu eppadi thappikkalaam enbadhai therindhukollungal. ippōdhē therindhukondaal, valarndhu periyavargalaagi vēlaikku pōgumpōdhum adhu ungalukku udhavum. adhōdu, indha maadhiri aatkal matravargalukku seks thollai koduppadhaikkūda nīngal thadukkalaam!

 adhil sikki kondaal enna seivadhu?

 seks thollai endraal enna? yaaraavadhu appadi thollai kodukkumpōdhu naam enna seiya vēndum? idhaiyellaam therindhu vaitthirundhaaldhaan adhai nammaal thadukka mudiyum. ippōdhu naam mūndru sūlnilaigalai paarkkalaam. ovvoru sūlnilaiyilum nīngal eppadi nadandhukollalaam enbadhai therindhukollungal.

sūlnilai:

“naan vēlai seigira idatthil ennaivida vayadhil periyavargalaaga irukkira sila aangal ennidam vandhu, ‘nī romba alagaaga irukkiraai’ endru eppōdhum solvaargal. engalukku mattum 30 vayadhu kammiyaaga irundhirundhaal evvalavu nandraaga irundhirukkum endru solvaargal. adhil oruvar en pinnaal nerukkamaaga vandhu ennudaiya mudiyai mugarndhu paartthaar.”–thabīthaa, 20.

 thabīthaa ippadi yōsikkalaam: ‘naan idhai kandukkaamal amaidhiyaaga pallai kaditthukkondu irundhuvittaal avar ennidam thappaaga nadandhukolvadhai nirutthividalaam.’

 idhu ēn vēlaikku aagaadhu: seks thollaikku aalaagiravargal amaidhiyaaga porutthu kollumpōdhu niraiya samayangalil andha thollai thodarndhukondudhaan irukkiradhu, sollappōnaal, romba mōsamaagividugiradhu endru nibunargal solgiraargal.

 ippadi seidhu paarungal: ‘indha maadhiri pēsuvadhaiyum, thoduvadhaiyum naan porutthukkondu irukka maattēn’ endru urudhiyaaga porumaiyaaga ungalukku thollai koduppavaridam sollividungal. 22 vayadhu teran ippadi solgiraar: “yaaraavadhu ennai thēvaiyillaamal thodumpōdhu, naan nēradiyaaga avarai paartthu, ‘inimēl ippadi ennai thodaadhīrgal’ endru sollividuvēn. naam appadi solvōm endru thollai kodukkira andha nabar edhirpaartthirukkavē maattaar.” oruvēlai avar thodarndhu sīndikkondē irundhaal bayappadaadhīrgal. urudhiyaaga irungal. avarukku inangi pōividaadhīrgal. uyarndha olukka nerigalai kadaippidikka muyarchi seiyumpōdhu baibil sollum indha aalōsanaiyai kadaippidiyungal: “mudhirchi ullavargalaagavum, urudhiyaana nambikkai ullavargalaagavum, nilaitthu nirpavargalaagavum irukka vēndum.”—kolōseyar 4:​12.

 thollai kodukkira andha nabar ungalai ēdhaavadhu seidhuviduvēn endru bayamurutthinaal enna seivadhu? andha maadhiri samayatthil sandaikku nirkaadhīrgal. andha idatthilirundhu evvalavu sīkkiram mudiyumō avvalavu sīkkiram nadaiyai kattungal. nīngal nambum oru mudhirchiyulla nabaridam udhavi kēlungal.

 sūlnilai:

“naan aaraam vaguppu paditthukkondirundhēn. orunaal naan varaandaavil pōi kondirundhapōdhu irandu pengal ennai piditthu ilutthaargal. adhil oru pen lesbiyan, adhaavadhu, pennōdu pen uravu vaitthukolbavargal. naam iruvarum veliyē pōi sandhōshamaaga irukkalaam endru ennai kūppittaal. naan mudiyaadhu endru sonnaalum andha pen enakku dhinamum thollai kodutthukkondē irundhaal. oru dhadavai ennai piditthu suvaril thallivittaal.”–viktōriyaa, 18.

 oruvēlai viktōriyaa ippadi yōsikkalaam: ‘naan idhai patri yaaridamaavadhu sonnaal, matravargal ennai bayandhaangolli endru mutthirai kutthividuvaargalō? ennai yaarum namba maattaargalō?’ endru yōsikkalaam.

 idhu ēn vēlaikku aagaadhu: idhai patri yaaridamum sollavillai endraal thollai kodukkum andha nabar thodarndhu sīndikkondē iruppaar. matravargalukkum thollai kodutthukkondē iruppaar.–prasangi 8:11.

 ippadi seidhu paarungal: udhavi edutthukkollungal. indha thollaiyilirundhu thappikka thēvaiyaana udhaviyai appaa- ammaavaal alladhu aasiriyaraal kodukka mudiyum. aanaal, nīngal sollum vishayatthai avargal peridhaaga edutthukkollavillai endraal enna seivadhu? tips: ovvoru dhadavaiyum andha nabar ungalukku thollai kodukkumpōdhu adhai patri vivaramaaga eludhungal. thēdhi, nēram, endha idatthil nadandhadhu, thollai kodukkira nabar ennavellaam sonnaar endru vilakkamaaga eludhungal.adhai ungal appaa, ammaavidam alladhu aasiriyaridam kodungal. verumanē solvadhaivida, indha maadhiri eludhi kodukkumpōdhu niraiya pēr sīkkiramaaga nadavadikkai eduppaargal.

 sūlnilai:

“ragbi engira oruvagai kaalpandhu vilaiyaadum tīmil irundha oru paiyanai paartthaalē enakku romba bayamaaga irukkum. avan kittatthatta 61⁄2 adi, 135 kilō iruppaan. avan ennōdu seks vaitthukolla vēndum endra mudivōdu sutthikkondu irundhaan. adhanaal ovvoru naalum thondharavu kodutthukkondē irundhaan. ippadiyē oru varushatthukku nadandhadhu. oru naal klaas rūmil naanum avanum mattum thaniyaa irundhōm. appōdhu avan en pakkatthil vandhaan. naan udanē klaas rūmmai vittu ōdi pōyivittēn.”—jūlittaa, 18.

 oruvēlai jūlittaa ippadi yōsikkalaam: ‘paiyangal endraalē appadidhaan.’

 idhu ēn vēlaikku aagaadhu: ellaarumē adhē maadhiri ninaitthuvittaal thollai kodukkira andha nabar thirundhaamal pōividalaam.

 ippadi seidhu paarungal: thollai kodukkum nabargal kētkira kēlvigalukku siritthukkondē badhil sollaadhīrgal. alladhu siritthu maluppaadhīrgal. nīngal nadandhukolgira vidhatthilirundhu nīngal edhai porutthukkolvīrgal edhai porutthukkolla maattīrgal endru thollai kodukkira nabar thelivaaga purindhukolla vēndum. ungaludaiya mugabaavanaiyilum nīngal idhai kaatta vēndum.

 ushaaraaga iruppadhu eppadi?

 unmai kadhai 1:

“enakku matravargalidam kadugaduvendru nadandhukolvadhu pidikkaadhu. adhanaal paiyangal enakku thollai kodukkumpōdhu, avargalidam ‘ippadi pannaadhīrgal’ endru solvēn. aanaal, naan adhai romba urudhiyaaga sollavillai. silasamayam adhai sollumpōdhu siritthukkondē solliyirukkirēn. adhanaal naan avargalidam valigirēn endru avargal ninaitthukkondaargal.”—thabīthaa.

•    oruvēlai nīngal thabīthaavin idatthil irundhirundhaal thollai kodukkira andha nabargalidam eppadi nadandhiruppīrgal? ēn?

•    thollai koduppavarukku ennudaiya endha seyal naan valigirēn endra thappaana signalai kaattum?

 unmai kadhai 2:

“pi.tī klaasil sila paiyangal asingamaana kamentgal sonnapōdhudhaan ellaa prachinaiyum aarambitthadhu. konjam vaarangalukku adhai naan kandukkaamal appadiyē vittuvittēn. aanaal, adhu pōga pōga romba mōsamaagikondē pōnadhu. piragu paiyangal en pakkatthil utkaarndhu en thōl mēl kaiyai pōda aarambitthaargal. naan thattivittaalum avargal thirumba thirumba idhē maadhiri seidhukondu irundhaargal. kadaisiyil avargalil oruvan oru pēpparil romba asingamaaga eludhi ennidam kodutthaan. naan adhai en tīcharidam kodutthēn. andha paiyanai skūlil irundhu saspent pannivittaargal. ennudaiya aasiriyaridam idhai patri naan munnaadiyē pēsi irukkalaam endru appōdhudhaan enakku purindhadhu.”—sabīnaa.

•    sabīnaa ēn idhai patri munbē tīcharidam sollavillai endru ninaikkirīrgal? aval edutthadhu oru nalla mudivudhaanaa? aamaam/ illai. ēn appadi solgirīrgal?

 unmai kadhai 3:

“ennudaiya thambi grēg baathrūmil irukkumpōdhu thidīr endru oru paiyan angu vandhuvittaan. avan grēgidam romba nerukkamaaga vandhu enakku muttham kodu endru solliyirukkiraan. aanaal, grēg mudiyaadhu endru solliyum andha paiyan angiyirundhu pōgavē illai. adhanaal, ennudaiya thambi avanai piditthu thalla vēndiyadhaagivittadhu.”—susan.

•    grēg seks thollaiyaal baadhikkappattaaraa? aamaam/ illai. ēn appadi solgirīrgal?

•    podhuvaaga paiyangalukku paiyangal seks thollai kodukkumpōdhu adhai veliyil solla ēn silar thayangugiraargal endru ninaikkirīrgal?

•    grēg seidhadhu sari endru ninaikkirīrgalaa? nīngal angu irundhirundhaal enna seidhiruppīrgal?