ilainyargal kētkum kēlvigal
indha dras enakku eppadi irukku?
nīngal endha maadhiri dras pōdugirīrgal enbadhu mukkiyamaa? mukkiyamdhaan. ēnendraal, nīngal endha maadhiri dras pōdugirīrgal enbadhai vaitthē nīngal eppadippattavar endru sollivida mudiyum. ungal dras eppadi irukkiradhu?
thavaraana mūndru fēshan pōkkugalum avatrai thavirppadharkaana valigalum
thavaru #1: vilambarangalil varuvadhupōl dras pannuvadhu.
tharīsaa endra tīnēj pen ippadi solgiraal: “oru fēshanai patthi vilambarangalla paarkka paarkka adhē maadhiri dras pōdanumnu enakkum aasai vandhudum. ellaarum pudhu fēshanpadi dras pandradha paarkkurappō namma manasulayum adhu aalamaa padhinjududhu. adhukkappuram adha pōdaama irukka mudiyaadhu.”
pengal mattumalla, paiyangalum vilambarangalai paartthu mayangividugiraargal. “paiyangalum lēttast fēshan ennavendru paartthudhaan dras pannugiraargal. avargal siruvargalaaga irukkumpōdhē fēshan vilambaradhaarargal avargalai kurivaitthuvidugiraargal” endru dha evrithing gaid tu reising adaalasant baais endra butthagam solgiradhu.
maatri yōsiyungal: “vivaram theriyaadhavan yaar edhai sonnaalum nambividugiraan. aanaal, saamartthiyamaaga nadakkiravan ovvoru adiyaiyum yōsitthudhaan edutthu vaikkiraan” endru baibil solgiradhu. (nīdhimoligal 14:15) appadiyendraal, vilambarangalai paartthavudanēyē drasai vaanga thudikkaamal, konjam maatri yōsikka palagikkollungal. udhaaranatthukku, oru dras ungalai “kavarchiyaaga,” “glaamaraaga,” “seksiyaaga” kaattum endru oru vilambaram sollumpōdhu ippadi yōsiyungal:
‘naan indha dras pōduradhunaala unmaiyilēyē yaarukku laabam?’
‘naan idha pōttaa matthavanga ennai patthi enna ninaippaanga?’
‘avanga appadi ninaikkanunkaradhudhaan en aasaiyaa?’
tips: oru vaaratthukku, thuni vilambarangalai paarkkumpōdhellaam indha kēlvigalai kēttukkollungal: eppadippatta vaalkkai vaala vēndumendru idhu solgiradhu? trendil irukkum drasai nīngalum pōttē aaga vēndum endru indha vilambaram ungalai ninaikka vaikkiradhaa? karen endra tīnēj pen ippadi solgiraal: “paarkka semmaiyaa irukkanum, kalakkalaa dras pannikkanum, ‘chikkunu’ theriyanum appadinellaamdhaan naanga aasaippadurōm. vilambaram seiravanga ilainyargalōda indha aasaiya saadhagamaa payanpadutthikkiraanga.”
thavaru #2: matravargalai pōlavē dras panna ninaippadhu.
“ellaarumē pudhu fēshanpadidhaan dras pannuvaanga. naama mattum vitthiyaasamaa dras pannunaa nammala oru maadhiri paarppaanga” endru maanvel endra tīnēj paiyan solgiraan. aanaa endra tīnēj pennum appaditthaan ninaikkiraal. “naama mattum thaniyaa theriyaama irukkuradhudhaan romba mukkiyam” endru aval solgiraal.
maatri yōsiyungal: “indha ulagatthin baaniyai pinpatruvadhai nirutthungal” endru baibil solgiradhu. (rōmar 12:2) idhai manadhil vaitthu, ungalidam irukkum thunimanigalai konjam paarungal. ungalaiyē ippadi kēttukkollungal:
‘naan ēn indha drasellaam pōda aasaippadurēn?’
‘prabalamaana braandula dras vaanguradhudhaan mukkiyamnu ninaikkirēnaa?’
‘matthavangala asatthura maadhiri dras pannikka virumburēnaa?’
tips: oru dras fēshanil irukkiradhaa, fēshanil illaiyaa enbadhai mattumē yōsikkaadhīrgal. mūndraavadhaaga oru vishayatthaiyum yōsiyungal. adhaavadhu, andha drasai pōdumpōdhu ungalukku thannambikkai kidaikkumaa endrum paarungal. appadi thannambikkai kidaikkum endraal, matravargal enna ninaikkiraargal endru nīngal kavalaippada maattīrgal.
thavaru #3: seksiyaaga dras panninaaldhaan nandraaga irukkum endru ninaippadhu.
”unmaiya sollanumnaa, silasamayam romba kuttaiyaa, taittaa, illanaa udambai kaattura maadhiri dras pannikka aasaiyaa irukkum” endru jenifar endra tīnēj pen solgiraal.
maatri yōsiyungal: “velippura alangaaram ungalukku alangaaramaaga irukka vēndaam. adharku badhilaaga, idhayatthil maraindhirukkira . . . gunamdhaan ungalukku aliyaadha alangaaramaaga irukka vēndum” endru baibil solgiradhu. (1 pēdhuru 3:3, 4) konjam yōsitthu paarungal: naam alagaaga therivadhu mukkiyamaa alladhu alagaana gunangalai kaattuvadhu mukkiyamaa?
tips: adakkamdhaan unmaiyilēyē ungalai alagaakkum. unmaidhaan, indru yaarum adhai mukkiyamaaga ninaippadhillai. aanaal, idhai yōsitthu paarungal:
yaaraavadhu oruvar ungalai pēsavidaamal avarē pēsikkondu irundhirukkiraaraa alladhu avarai patriyē pēsikkondu irundhirukkiraaraa? appadippattavargal, matra ellaarum thangalai rasippaargal endru ninaitthukkolgiraargal. unmaiyil, appadippattavargalai yaarukkumē pidippadhillai.
thangalai patriyē pēsugiravargalai yaarukkum pidikkaadhu. adhēpōl, ‘ennai paaru, en alagai paaru’ enbadhupōl dras seigiravargalaiyum yaarukkum pidikkaadhu
nīngal adakkam illaamal dras pannikkondaal avargalai pōlatthaan iruppīrgal. ēnendraal, ellaarum ungalai paarkka vēndum endru nīngal ninaippadhai adhu kaattum. adhanaal, ungalukkē ungalmēl nambikkai illai endrō, ungalai patriyēdhaan yōsippīrgal endrō matravargal ninaikkalaam. avargaludaiya gavanatthai īrppadharkaaga nīngal enna vēndumaanaalum seivīrgal endrukūda ninaikkalaam. adhanaal, thappaana aatkalidam nīngal sikkikkollavum vaaippu irukkiradhu.
idhupōndra prachinaiyil sikkaamal irukka vēndumendraal, adakkamaaga dras pannungal. “adakkamaa dras pannanum appadingaradhukkaaga unga paatti kaalatthu drasai pōttukkanumnu kidaiyaadhu. ungalayum matthavangalayum madhikkira maadhiri dras pannanum, avlōdhaan” endru mōnikkaa endra tīnēj pen solgiraal.
