Twemera ibyo Bibiliya yigisha ku birebana n’ishyingiranwa ndetse no gutana. Imana ishaka ko umugabo n’umugore babana akaramata. Bibiliya ivuga ko impamvu imwe rukumbi yatuma abashakanye batana, ari ubusambanyi.​—Matayo 19:5, 6, 9.

Ese Abahamya bafasha abashakanye bafite ibibazo?

 Yego. Ibyo babikora bifashishije:

•   Ibitabo na videwo. Birimo ingingo zafasha abashakanye, ndetse n’abafitanye ibibazo bikomeye. Urugero, reba ingingo ifite umutwe uvuga ngo: “Mukomere ku masezerano mwagiranye mushyingiranwa,” “Uko wababarira,” n’indi ivuga ngo: “Uko mwakongera kwizerana.”

•   Amateraniro. Mu makoraniro yacu no mu materaniro yacu, tuhabonera inama zo muri Bibiliya zafasha abashakanye.

•   Abasaza b’itorero. Abasaza bafasha abashakanye, bakabibutsa amahame yo muri Bibiliya, urugero nk’iryo mu Befeso 5:​22-​25.

Ese abasaza ni bo bemeza ko Umuhamya agomba gutana n’uwo bashakanye?

 Oya. Nubwo abasaza bafasha abashakanye gukemura ibibazo bafitanye, ntibemerewe kubabwira icyo bagomba gukora (Abagalatiya 6:5). Icyakora abatana bidatewe n’impamvu Bibiliya yemera, ntibashobora guhabwa inshingano mu itorero kandi Bibiliya ivuga ko batemerewe kongera gushaka.​—1 Timoteyo 3:1, 5, 12.

Abahamya babona bate ibyo kwahukana?

 Bibiliya igira abashakanye inama yo kutahukana uko imimerere yaba imeze kose (1 Abakorinto 7:10-16). Gusengana umwete, gushyira amahame ya Bibiliya mu bikorwa no kugaragarizanya urukundo, bishobora kubafasha gukemura ibibazo bafitanye.​—1 Abakorinto 13:​4-8; Abagalatiya 5:​22.

 Icyakora, hari imimerere Abakristo bamwe na bamwe bagiye bageramo, bagafata umwanzuro wo kwahukana, urugero nk’igihe uwo bashakanye:

•   Yanga nkana gutunga abo mu muryango we.​—1 Timoteyo 5:8.

•   Agira urugomo.​—Zaburi 11:5.

•   Abuza uwo bashakanye gukorera Imana. Urugero, umwe mu bashakanye ashobora guhatira undi kurenga ku mategeko y’Imana, hanyuma akabona kwahukana ari bwo buryo bwatuma ‘yumvira Imana yo mutegetsi aho kumvira abantu.’​—Ibyakozwe 5:29.