Dzo kpo yi emenuwo dzi

Dzo kpo yi emenuawo dzi

Abe ale si simiti-ba léa gli ɖe te ene la, bubudede ame nɔewo ŋu ye nye ba si alé miaƒe srɔ̃ɖeɖea ɖe te

 NA SRƆ̃TƆWO

3: Bubu

3: Bubu

NU SI WÒFIA

Ne srɔ̃tɔwo dea bubu wo nɔewo ŋu la, wolɔ̃a wo nɔewo ne kuxiwo do mo ɖa gɔ̃ hã. Agbalẽ aɖe (Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage) gblɔ be: “Womeɖea mɔ kuxia gblẽa woƒe ƒomedodoa me o. Ke boŋ woƒoa nu tso masɔmasɔ ɖe sia ɖe si do mo ɖa ŋu. Woɖoa to sea susu si le wo nɔewo si bubutɔe eye wodia nu si ana woakpɔ kuxia gbɔ.”

BIBLIA ƑE MƆFIAME: “Lɔlɔ̃ . . . media ye ŋutɔ tɔ o.”—1 Korintotɔwo 13:4, 5.

“Be made bubu srɔ̃nye ŋu fia be made asixɔxɔ eŋu eye nyemedina be mawɔ naneke si agblẽ nu le eŋu alo le míaƒe srɔ̃ɖeɖea ŋu o.”—Micah.

NU SI TA WÒLE VEVIE

Numekulawo gblɔ be nyahehe, gbedada ɖe ame gbɔ kple gbɔɖiamenyawo gbɔgblɔ ɖe ame ŋu xɔa srɔ̃tɔ siwo medea bubu wo nɔewo ŋu o ƒe dzeɖoɖowo me, eye wonye dzesi siwo fiana be srɔ̃tɔ siawo gbɔna wo nɔewo gbe ge.

“Nya madzetowo gbɔgblɔ, ahamasisi, alo hatsekaka le ame srɔ̃ ŋu ana dzi naɖe le eƒo eye wòasusu be yemeɖi naneke le gbɔwò o, eye esia ana srɔ̃ɖeɖea me nagblẽ.”—Brian.

NU SI NÀTE ŊU AWƆ

DO ÐOKUIWÒ KPƆ

Na wò susu nanɔ wò dzeɖoɖowo kple wò nuwɔnawo ŋu hena kwasiɖa ɖeka. Emegbe nàbia ɖokuiwò be:

  • ‘Zi nenie mehe nya ɖe srɔ̃nye ŋu, eye zi nenie mekafui?’

  • ‘Nu kawo koŋ mee mede bubu srɔ̃nye ŋu le?’

WÒ KPLE SRƆ̃WÒ MIÐO DZE TSO NYA SIAWO ŊU

  • Nuwɔna kple nyagbɔgblɔ kawoe afia be miede bubu mia nɔewo ŋu?

  • Nuwɔna kple nyagbɔgblɔ kawoe fia be miede bubu mia nɔewo ŋu o?

AÐAŊUÐOÐOWO

  • Ŋlɔ nu etɔ̃ siwo me nàdi be woade bubu ye ŋu le la ɖi. Na srɔ̃wò hã nawɔe nenema. Tsɔ tɔwòa na srɔ̃wò, eye wò hã nàxɔ etɔ eye miadze agbagba awɔ ɖe nu siwo miede dzesii la dzi atsɔ ade bubu mia nɔewo ŋu.

  • Ŋlɔ srɔ̃wò ƒe nɔnɔme siwo nyoa ŋuwòa ɖi. Emegbe gblɔ ale si gbegbe nèkpɔa ŋudzedze ɖe nɔnɔme mawo ŋu la nɛ.

“Be made bubu srɔ̃nye ŋu fia be mato nye nuwɔnawo dzi aɖee afia be medea asixɔxɔ eŋu eye medina be wòakpɔ dzidzɔ. Mele be wòanye nu gã aɖe ɣesiaɣi o; ɣeaɖewoɣia nuwɔna suesuesue aɖewoe fiana be medea bubu eŋu.”—Megan.

Nyaa koe nye be menye ale si nèsusu be yedea bubu ye srɔ̃ ŋu ye nye nyaa o, ke boŋ ale si srɔ̃wò sena le eɖokui mee le vevie.

BIBLIA ƑE MƆFIAME: “Mido dɔmetɔtrɔ kple nublanuikpɔkpɔ, dɔmekɔkɔ, ɖokuibɔbɔɖeanyi, dɔmefafa, dzigbɔgbɔ blewu.”—Kolosetɔwo 3:12.